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T O P I C R E V I E WStarry~*To all the Scorpios, or people who know Scorpios well:Are you guys strict with your lovers? Meaning, when they do something you don't like, you will impose "rules" on them?Example from a Scorpio:Coming back at 2AM on a Friday night, DESPITE the fact that your S.O. texted you and let you know where she was and who she was with. Although she was late, she texted you to let you know she was late.Scorpio: 2AM???? That's too late!! Get back by midnight. If you come back after midnight, I will lock the doors on you. Also, you can't go out with XX. You can go out with AA and BB, but not XX.What do you think, Scorps? NickiGi dont do thatthat is a sure fire way to loose your current SOi'd rather keep a long leash on him, give him some freedom...only when he does something i REALLY dont like will i say something------------------I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in historymintgirl123That's not strict. That's being controlling. And Scorpios are terribly controlling at times.NickiG quote:Originally posted by mintgirl123:That's not strict. That's being controlling. And Scorpios are terribly controlling at times.not all scorpios------------------I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in historyStarry~*Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.I'm okay with it because afterall, it's somewhat being protective.NickiG quote:Originally posted by Starry~*:Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.I'm okay with it because afterall, it's somewhat being protective.i suppose thats acceptable------------------I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in historyRedScorpI'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'DNickiG quote:Originally posted by RedScorp:I'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'Das he screams it in our faces... ------------------I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in historyStarry~* quote:Originally posted by RedScorp:I'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'DCAPS GALORERegardesPlatero -Malena quote:Originally posted by Starry~*:Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.So, are we talking about a male colleague trying to get Scorpio guy's partner too drunk? Hoooo yeah, that's gonna make the average Scorpio see red.However, taking it out on you and threatening to lock the doors or dictate who you can hang out with is over the line. It's a red flag... I think you've got to ask yourself, if you stay in this relationship for a long time, is he always going to deal with problems by slamming down some ultimatum against you? I'm a Scorpio, and I wouldn't do that, simply because trying to control your partner like that is exhausting and usually doesn't work in the long run. I want to be a participant in my relationships, not a police officer. I feel like if I have to watch your every move, maybe you're not the kind of person I need to be in a relationship with. But some Scorpios don't have the maturity to take that kind of long view.Basically, I think his displeasure is pretty typical Scorpio, but the way he acts on it is heading toward the "less evolved" aspects of the sign. I also agree that this is potentially the signal of an abusive relationship.
Are you guys strict with your lovers? Meaning, when they do something you don't like, you will impose "rules" on them?
Example from a Scorpio:
Coming back at 2AM on a Friday night, DESPITE the fact that your S.O. texted you and let you know where she was and who she was with. Although she was late, she texted you to let you know she was late.
Scorpio: 2AM???? That's too late!! Get back by midnight. If you come back after midnight, I will lock the doors on you. Also, you can't go out with XX. You can go out with AA and BB, but not XX.
What do you think, Scorps?
that is a sure fire way to loose your current SO
i'd rather keep a long leash on him, give him some freedom...only when he does something i REALLY dont like will i say something
------------------I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?
when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history
quote:Originally posted by mintgirl123:That's not strict. That's being controlling. And Scorpios are terribly controlling at times.
not all scorpios
I'm okay with it because afterall, it's somewhat being protective.
quote:Originally posted by Starry~*:Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.I'm okay with it because afterall, it's somewhat being protective.
i suppose thats acceptable
quote:Originally posted by RedScorp:I'M NOT LIKE THAT, I'M KINDA THE OPPOSITE! :'D
as he screams it in our faces...
CAPS GALORE
quote:Originally posted by Starry~*:Well, the SO was out drinking on a friday night with colleagues and XX so happens to be somebody whom you don't like b/c the last time XX was out with your SO he/she tried to make her/him drink too much.
So, are we talking about a male colleague trying to get Scorpio guy's partner too drunk? Hoooo yeah, that's gonna make the average Scorpio see red.
However, taking it out on you and threatening to lock the doors or dictate who you can hang out with is over the line. It's a red flag... I think you've got to ask yourself, if you stay in this relationship for a long time, is he always going to deal with problems by slamming down some ultimatum against you?
I'm a Scorpio, and I wouldn't do that, simply because trying to control your partner like that is exhausting and usually doesn't work in the long run. I want to be a participant in my relationships, not a police officer. I feel like if I have to watch your every move, maybe you're not the kind of person I need to be in a relationship with. But some Scorpios don't have the maturity to take that kind of long view.
Basically, I think his displeasure is pretty typical Scorpio, but the way he acts on it is heading toward the "less evolved" aspects of the sign. I also agree that this is potentially the signal of an abusive relationship.
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